Comments on: Transracial Adoption Decisions

By: Danielle I. Pennel

Danielle I. Pennel — Sat, 31 Jan 2009 16:10:06 +0000

In the recent issue of Adoptive Families magazine there is a wonderful article on this topic. It is written by a Caucasian couple who had adopted an African American boy. They wanted to expose their son to others who physically resembled him so they researched local African American churches. They were very nervous to go because for once they would be the minority race. But they knew it was best for their son so they went. They felt out of place at first but were warmly welcomed by the church. Their son loved feeling part of that community. I feel like that article touched on a lot of things I discussed on this website. You should check it out.

By: Patti

Patti — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 03:41:09 +0000

This is something we have been thinking over since the beginning and are still waiting. I really like this article, it really puts things into perspective! You are such an insightful person. It is wonderful you have decided to share your experience with all of us. Thanks.

By: Diane

Diane — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 22:27:28 +0000

This is a thoughtful article which will be of help to prospective parents and people who have not considered the implications of intrusive questions. thank you.

By: caseyjay

caseyjay — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 03:16:03 +0000

Thank you for a thoughtful, insightful article about transracial adoption. I think you’re right to encourage would-be parents to discuss their families’ feelings before adopting children of a different race; if everyone is honest, it could save a lot of hurt down the road. Congratulations to you and P for opening your hearts to three children that needed you.